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"The more nonchalant you act about a guy's other dates, the more secure and confident you'll feel about yourself, which in turn makes you more attractive to men," says Vogels.
Jasmine, 31, found that keeping her cool — and her sense of humor — allowed her to get through an awkward other-woman moment.
If you want to have more than one mattress mate, go for it.
"Part of the fun of dating several men is the variety of booty," says Vogels.
"I was at a bar with my date when a gorgeous blonde walked up to him and kissed him smack on the lips," she says. When my date tried to introduce me, she looked me up and down and refused to shake my hand.
"There are plenty of benefits to having lots of dates, not the least of which is that you'll project a self-assured, carefree attitude when meeting new people, men in particular," says Gould.It was like being in love, but I was in love with life — not with any one guy." Really want to flex your multimanhandling muscle?Don't just double book for the same day; do it for the same event.You'll never get hung up on whether any one man will call, and guys you go out with will pick up on that decidedly undesperate vibe and clamor for you even more. Read on for all the instruction you'll need to avoid potential pitfalls and maximize your man hot streak.Juggling Rule 1: Cram Your Calendar You may be tempted to play it safe and spread out your dates so that you can get to know each of your suitors one by one.